Yesterday was all bananas, gym, bananas and then I went for coffee with my girl-friends. I ordered green tea and succeeded in staying away from the refilling bowl of cookies.. (yeah cause the cafe's name is "Cookie" so there are everywhere, but other than that it's a lovely warming place). But then they decided to go for a movie in N's house. I knew they had cooked spaghetti so to avoid that I claimed to be so hungry and ordered a mozzarella salad to go. Boo.
I tried my best, really.. waking up the scale showed 58. Well it's one kilo down but STILL!! I could do a lot lot better..
The thing is I want to complain right now. I can't complain to anyone else cause it's a silly silly thing that is bothering me, so I'll just put it all here. (poor you.. but you can skip that part!)
-So! My friend E is from a small village -even smaller than the town we're studying. That is not a bad thing but she just copies EVERYTHING I'm doing and I hate that. Yes I am mean. I don't want her to dress like me, walk like me, drink the certain coffee I'm drinking and order apple martini's like she had always been that way. She even copies my beliefs even though when we two talk she doesn't agree with me. I get mad. Because I'm not happy with my body, my university and my life in general, but the one thing I'm proud of is my style.
And I don't want her to think she owns that.
There it is, I said it.
Anyways, stay strong lovelies :)
I've been there - I had a friend at school who copied my style EXACTLY it was weird - she even started talking like me (we had different accents). In the end I spoke to a mutual friend about it and she agreed with me the girl was crossing the line so she spoke to her, pretending I didn't know, and kind of suggested she tone it down.
ReplyDeleteIt worked! Maybe try that?
Otherwise - a kg is a kg! Be proud! xxx
I hope you can sort out your problem with your friend.
ReplyDeleteAnd you deserve to be excited about your loss. Hell, I get excited about losing a pound, and that's less than half of a kilogram.
Aw, I hope it works out. You know, it's kind of nice that she idolises you so much! You could say something to her if you like, or just wait it out.
ReplyDeleteWell done with your loss, pretty.
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Ugh, how irritating. I guess you have to keep your opinions to yourself when you're around her, just be a boring Jane or something =P What's so appealing to you about her anyway, if she has no personality of her own? Biiiznatch. Keep your style your own ;)
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you know i had the EXACT same problem a few years back and no one understand how freaking annoying it is to be copied 100 percent of the time. they would always say " immitation is the best form of flattery" or whatever. pfft its just creepy in my opinion. its like get a life and be your own person, not my clone lol.
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ugh i know exactly how you feel. and people tell you to take it as a compliment and you're like "i soooo don't!" haha. hopefully she'll get over it soon
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That's definitely not something to be mad about...they since mimicry is the sincerest form of flattery, but it's also the most annoying one! Hope she gets over this :/
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P.S. Good job staying strong while being surrounded by cookies :P