I am finally at home for the holidays. My parents are here, my sister came as well, and we are a happy family all together. I haven't met with my sister since Peru (that trip was 6 months ago), so I was so happy to see her at last!
So, first things first; hair. I had my hair cut and coloured yesterday at my usual salon by the sea. I decided to leave my light brown ombre for the winter, and get a darker colour. Much darker. I am happy with the result, although I may seem even more bitchy now, to some. Anyways, this will last me until May, enough time to master the 'tough biker chic' look. Ha.
The other hot topic, the boy. (this section has some..adult content) As I have already mentioned, at my conference trip I met a guy and we liked each other very much. We don't live at the same town, unfortunately, so we just kept in touch through Facebook inbox messages (I don't use chat). We chatted for everything and anything every single day and it was like we knew each other for years; he decided to stay a few more days in my home town so we could meet, before going to his for the holidays. I do have some juicy details for you all, it seems. Friday night we went for drinks at this terrace bar with a stunning view (so cold up there!) and we kissed a bit. But Saturday was the real deal. I don't want to sound slutty (although it seems inevitable) but I really wanted to have sex with him. And he did too. So after going to the movies with my family, I told them I had to go to a party, and went to his house. It was like a high school lie, oh god!
I wanted for 2013 to end in a better way in that aspect of my life, and it really did. No dramas, no attachments, we both knew we really liked each other (so that it didn't seem raw) but couldn't work a relationship out (so that it wasn't that romantic). I couldn't (and didn't want to) sleep over, so after waking up the next door's dog (it wasn't THAT good, but it was pretty good), I got a taxi, kissed him for the holidays (and forever in general) and I went home.
I think this is the most adult situation I have ever been in. We are both aware of the situation. I mean, if he comes earlier from his holidays we could meet again, but if he doesn't (he probably will tho) it's fine as well. We both know that if we lived closer, that could end up in a relationship. But there's no point in starting a long distance one. No point at all.
Although I will post again, Merry Christmas to anyone that celebrates it! To all the others, enjoy the holidays :)
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Sex is fantastic when you know you have to wait for it, no?
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I love that type of relationship. It has all the fun of liking someone with the fun of meaningless sex. It's perfect, to be in love just for an evening. Best wishes to you, enjoy the aftermath of christmas!
ReplyDeleteI hope your Christmas went well. It sounds to me that you have put a lot of thought into this "relationship" and it sounds like you're content with the way that it went. That's wonderful. Lots of love.
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