I felt I had to make an update about the boy though. After hours of texting during the holidays (we live at different towns), two nights of pure amazing sex and a couple of glasses of wine, I think we are 'compatible'. But we live apart, like one hour by plane apart. Eight hours by boat apart. So we didn't do the silly thing; that is to create a long distance relationship out of the blue. And we both decided on that.
But he got a different mind. So he started texting me, saying that he wished I was there, and he misses me and stuff like that. All of these apply to me too, I just don't want a relationship with my computer (my lovely gorgeous Macbook Air haha). So next month, and before I leave for London he is going to visit me for 3-4 days. Just to live everything again. I am happy about that, but I am going even further away than I am now. I am afraid of what he might ask of me -to keep a long distance one.
I don't want to rush my thoughts so far though.
We shall see.
black outfit and coffee, how not to fall in love?
Always in two minds about this, because my experience with long distance is that it simply doesn't work. But that isn't true - I think that the trick is to have some semblance of an idea as to when you might be living in the same place. Long distance is tough though, but I think you have the right attitude. Realistic. It could work, be optimistic sweetie!
ReplyDeleteLong distance relationships can be hard. But it sounds like you two get along very well. I hope you guys can get thing figured out.
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You are doing well with taking it slowly and getting together to see each other again. Best wishes, dear
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